Early Marriage Syndrome

           Dulu-dulu ada la perasaan nak kahwin, now?? Cant tell.. hehe

Berkahwin pada usia yang muda sangat mencabar, things get tougher to convince your parent about this idea, and ask their permission.I witnessed to one conversation, a daughter and a father.

Father: How was your study?

Daughter: Fine.

Father: Still have an idea to get married soon?

Daughter: I little, I guessed.

Father: I don’t even mind if you get married early just what I scare the most is you will neglect your study. Do you got what I meant??

Daughter: yup, absolutely.

(End)

SO, what do you think??

I have some sort like ideas why these parents nowadays are worried about their kid. Number one, as a student parent love to see us graduated with flying colour, and get hire. Sometimes married causes many problems related to study such as complication during pregnancy, commitment terhadap family dan pelajaran. How many people left out study to focus on family ?? at the end regret it. Do you brave enough to face this situation, ask you self again!!! Nampak kesungguhan dan tentangan hebat J hehe ..

           Number two. Preparation, Would you spare you shopping money for baby diapers and milk powder? Think again. Are both of you financially stable?? Think twice than.. Bila tak bersedia sebenar kita sedang menempah kemusnahan.. ganas tak??!! haha

          “If you failed to plan,actualy you are planned to fail”, so apa nak buat, dah susah sangat?? Just prepare yourself first to be better muslimah and muslimin, insyaAllah jodoh dah ditentukan dari manusia dalam rahim lagi... no worry ok !! doa banyak-banyak …Kalau dah ready “JUST GO FOR IT” J   

Sekian, sekadar pandangan 

thank you kerana membaca :)